The Night I Stopped Settling: Inside an Exclusive Luxcierge Speed Dating Event
If there’s one thing I’ve learned from dating in Dubai, it’s that not all men are created equal. Some will spend a first date talking about their “crazy ex” (🚩), some will disappear after three weeks of “good morning” texts (🚩🚩), and some—my personal favorite—will pretend to be self-made when their dad’s name is on every building in DIFC (🚩🚩🚩).
So when I heard about Luxcierge Group’s private speed dating event, I was intrigued. Unlike the usual free-for-all mixers where anyone can walk in, Luxcierge vets their guests. No randoms, no weirdos, no guys whose idea of a flex is bragging about skipping leg day. Just successful, like-minded people looking for real connections.
For the first time in a while, I felt excited to meet someone.
An Invitation-Only Experience
The event was held at a members-only lounge in a five-star hotel, the kind of place where the lighting is flattering, the drinks are top-shelf, and you can hear the sound of exclusivity in the air. No loud crowds, no chaotic energy—just an intimate, sophisticated setting that felt more Bond movie than random Tinder date.
Before even stepping foot inside, I knew this wasn’t your typical Dubai speed dating scene. Luxcierge requires pre-screening for all attendees, ensuring that everyone is who they say they are—professionally, financially, and socially. No catfish. No serial daters looking for a temporary situationship. Just quality over quantity.
And let me tell you, it showed.
A Lineup Worth Swiping Right On
I took a sip of my cocktail (smoky, bourbon-based, approved) and scanned the room. Dubai professionals, well-dressed, well-spoken, and for once—not glued to their phones. The ratio was balanced, the conversations were effortless, and there wasn’t a single awkward “So, uh, what do you do?” moment.
The best part? These men had depth.
I met an architect who designed some of Dubai’s most iconic buildings, a tech entrepreneur who had just sold his startup, and a luxury watch dealer who could actually explain the appeal of a Patek Philippe.
No energy vampires. No “alpha males” who think being rude is attractive. Just men with ambition and women who matched their energy.
Beyond Just Dating—The Real Value
About halfway through the night, I realized something unexpected—this wasn’t just about romance.
Yes, I was meeting potential dates. But I was also networking with incredible people. The woman sitting next to me? A powerhouse in venture capital. The guy I clicked with but didn’t necessarily feel romantic sparks with? Turns out he’s well-connected in real estate (hello, career move!).
By the end of the night, I had a handful of business connections, three solid date prospects, and zero dating app fatigue.
Why I’ll Never Go Back to Normal Dating
This experience changed the way I see dating in Dubai. Luxcierge Group has mastered the art of exclusivity, proving that when you curate the right crowd, you don’t just meet potential partners—you meet the kind of people who elevate your life.
And as I walked out of the venue, phone buzzing with new contacts, I realized one thing—once you’ve experienced the Luxcierge way, there’s no going back.
Quality over chaos, always. 💫
XOX
Sarah DxB
